This is my first time driving to Dali with my children, please ask for help

If you have 10 days, I personally recommend going
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• Tengchong + Ruili + Mangshi, the altitude is not too high, and you can see many ethnic things. If you go to Ruili, you can also see cross-border culture.
  Here is an itinerary for your reference. You can filter and reduce the itinerary according to your own preferences:
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  +Tengchong+Ruili+Mangshi
  D1: Arrive by car
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  , check in
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  At the ancient town inn, you have plenty of time to visit the Three Pagodas of the Holy Temple and the Three Pagodas Reflection Park, and have fun in the evening
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  ancient town, live
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  ancient town
  D2:
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  Driving around Erhai Lake,
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  Ancient Town, Caise Town,
  Double corridor
  , Nanzhao Customs Island, Yuji Island Tour, stay
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  or return
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  ancient town
  D3:
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  Cangshan, Tianlong Babu Film and Television City, Butterfly Spring,
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  In the ancient town, the author chooses 2 to 3 scenic spots according to his own preferences and stays there.
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  B&Bs in ancient towns or around Erhai Lake
  D4:
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  Drive to Tengchong, arrive at Tengchong at night, and stay in Heshun Ancient Town, or you can stay in Tengchong City
  D5: Go to the Volcanic Geopark in the morning (if you want to take a hot air balloon ride, you need to go to the Volcanic Geopark in the morning), then go to the Heiyu River and Columnar Joints, visit Heshun Ancient Town, and stay in Heshun Ancient Town.
  D6: Go to Tengchong Rehai in the morning and soak in a hot spring. In the afternoon, go to the Western Yunnan Anti-Japanese War Memorial Hall and the National War Cemetery. Stay in Tengchong.
  D7: Climb Yunfeng Mountain in the morning, go to Beihai Wetland Park in the afternoon, and stay in Tengchong
  D8: Drive from Tengchong to Mangshi, first visit the Peacock Valley Forest Park, and then visit the Menghuan Shwedagon Pagoda. You can stay in Mangshi at night and visit the Mengbana West Garden, Mangshi Square, etc.
  D9: Drive from Mangshi to Ruili and visit scenic spots such as One Village and Two Countries, Jiegao Port, Mangling Single Tree Forest, Mori Tropical Rainforest Scenic Area, etc. Stay in Ruili
  D10: Buy some souvenirs at Ruili Zhongmian Street and return to Ruili
  In addition, if you don’t want to go to high-altitude routes, you can go to Xishuangbanna+Fuxian Lake+Kunming+
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  , this line.
  There are really many ways to move on the 10th day, it depends on the poster except
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  Where else would you like to go.
  Yunnan is a big place, and a month of sightseeing is just a quick tour, so I would like to first decide which places to visit in Yunnan.
  Taking Kunming as the center, it is basically divided into eastern Yunnan (the Honghe area in Wenshan), southern Yunnan (the area in Xishuangbanna), central Yunnan (surrounding Chuxiong, Kunming), northern Yunnan (Diqing Shangri-La), and western Yunnan (the area in Baoshan and Tengchong).
  If it takes 10 to 15 days, you can go:
  Route 1: Kunming——
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  ——Lijiang——Shangri-La (Jade Dragon Snow Mountain, Yubeng)
  Route 2: Kunming - Jianshui - Yuanyang - Puzhehei - Bamei
  Route 3: Kunming - (Lincang) - Yuxi - Pu’er - Jinghong
  Route 4: Kunming——
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  ——Baoshan——Tengchong——Ruili
  To put it simply, if you don’t want to see the desert or enjoy the island style (although Yunnan also has several “sea”, they are lakes to be precise), then Yunnan basically covers the scenery of most places in China, and you can see mountains, See the water, the lake, the terraces, the tea fields, the caves, the ancient city, and the ancient town , see snow mountains, canyons, waterfalls, rape flowers, humanities, ethnic minorities, plateaus, karst landforms, red earth, religions, wetlands, volcanoes, geothermal heat, ginkgo biloba, and primitive secrets Forests, grasslands, border customs, urban development, red history, and the Ancient Tea Horse Road.
  In the same month in Yunnan, you can spend the summer in the south, the spring and autumn in the central part, and the winter in the north. You can travel through spring, summer, autumn and winter in one month, and you can also see the four sceneries of spring, summer, autumn and winter.
  When traveling during the peak season, it is recommended that you at least book all your accommodation, train tickets, plane tickets, etc. in advance. Tickets can also be purchased online in advance.
  As for accommodation,
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  In Lijiang and Shangri-La, there are really too many B&Bs and hotels. I suggest you choose according to your own budget and preferences.
  In addition, the author is going to a place with a relatively high altitude, especially Shangri-La, so I would like to ask you to bring some or eat some rhodiola in advance to prevent altitude sickness; and you should also wear sun protection.
  If you are interested, you can read my travel notes.
  One person, one backpack, 54 days, two countries and one province: Yunnan Province 32 days (Part 1) Jinghong Pu’er Jianshui Yuanyang Puzhehei Maitreya Luoping
  http://www.mafengwo.cn/i/8995905.html
  One person, one backpack, 54 days, two countries and one province: Yunnan Province 32 days (Part 2) Kunming
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  Jizu Mountain Tengchong
  http://www.mafengwo.cn/i/9023825.html
  One person, one backpack, 54 days, two countries and one province: Yunnan Province 32 days (Part 2) Lijiang Tiger Leaping Gorge Shangri-La Feilai Temple Yubeng
  http://www.mafengwo.cn/i/9042245.html
  Tropical and exotic customs in Xishuangbanna
  Pu’er tea fields
  Lin’an Town, Jianshui, the largest Confucian temple in China
  Jianshui Yanzi Cave
  Jianshui Shuanglong Bridge
  Yuanyang Rice Terraces, because it rained when I went there, I didn’t see the rice terraces.
  (This picture comes from the Internet)
  The general blackness feels like Yangshuo in the lake, and the scenery is very similar to Guangxi
  Maitreya, to see the Big Buddha, you need to climb 1999 steps
  Luoping rapeseed flowers, it was not the rapeseed season when I went there
  (This picture is published by the Internet)
  Luoping Jiulong Waterfall
  Dongchuan Red Land. On the way to Luoping, I was told that red land can be seen on the highway, so I didn’t go to Dongchuan.
  (This picture comes from the Internet)
  Kunming Stone Forest
  Kunming Cuihu Park
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  ancient town
  Xizhou
  ancient town
  Erhai Lake
  Cangshan
  Chongsheng Temple Three Pagodas
  Nanzhao style island
  jade island
  Binchuan
  Jizu Mountain
  Tengchong Heshun Ancient Town
  Tengchong Ginkgo Village
  Tengchong volcano: Big and small empty mountains
  Tengchong Rehai
  Tengchong Memorial Cemetery
  Lijiang: Shuhe Ancient Town
  Lijiang Old Town
  Shangri-La Tiger Leaping Gorge
  Shanghutiao
  middle tiger leap
  Shangri-la
  Garden Songzanling Monastery
  Shangri-la
  Dukezong Ancient City
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  Guishan Park
  napa sea
  Deqin Feilai Temple Meili Snow Mountain
  “Rizhao Jinshan”
  If you don’t go to heaven, go to Yubeng
  The pictures that are not labeled are all from my own travel notes.
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